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Welcome to Ask the Psychologist!

What would a psychologist say? There’s an easy way to find out: just ask! Get feedback directly from a Clinical Psychologist on issues ranging from relationships to depression and anxiety, trauma, and a whole bunch more. Please note that replies are provided for informational and educational purposes only.

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Can Understanding Personality Types Help Your Marriage?

By Dr Shailagh Clarke, PhD,

Q: I have trust issues with my wife of 26 years. It came to a head this summer when I found out she did not have an important discussion with her sister about the cost of moving their aging mother into a care facility. The mother isn’t wealthy and I wanted to be sure that [...]

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How Do I Become a Trauma Psychologist?

By Dr Jennifer Ritchie-Goodline, PsyD |

Q: If I wanted to become a psychologist specializing in Posttraumatic Stress Disorder what degree would I need to obtain to do so? A: In general in the U.S. (the details of this process may vary in other countries), in order to become a psychologist you need to obtain a graduate doctoral degree in psychology [...]

How Can I Forgive Myself for Watching Porn?

By Dr Misty Hook, PhD |

Q: In the past, on and off, I would look at rather violent and deviant pornography. This progressed into looking at illegal pornography. It is hard for me to even admit the things I saw but I assume you can figure it out. Needless to say it was the worst of the worst. I would [...]

My Girlfriend and I Have an Abusive Relationship

By Dr Misty Hook, PhD |

Q: My girlfriend and I have known each other for about one year. We had a difficult start. She was doing prostitution and I did not know that. In addition, she had three men in her life and I was one of them. I was not exactly an angel either. I had three women in [...]

My Best Friend Doesn’t Want Me to Date

By Dr Misty Hook, PhD |

Q: I am 15 years old and there is a boy who is my friend. Lately we’ve started talking a lot and I started liking him (I think it’s been 2-3 months). He told my best friend that he likes me. I told her to tell him that I like him too and she did. [...]

I Was Sexually Abused; I Don’t Want Sex Now

By Dr Shailagh Clarke, PhD |

Q: I was sexually abused years ago. Now I have a boyfriend and I’m afraid I am losing him, because I refused to have sex with him because of what happened in the past. What should I do? A: I am very sorry that happened to you. Given what you have experienced, you may or [...]

Was I Sexually Abused?

By Dr Misty Hook, PhD |

Q: For years I have suspected that I may have been sexually abused as a young child. I am 20 years old now. I am my mother’s only child. My father left when I was two and a half years old. Six months after my Dad left, my Mum met a man who was working [...]

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