Q: I’m 19 years old; I was 18 when this happened. I had just broken up with my first love, whom I was with for over a year, so I was completely vulnerable and didn’t want to be alone. I met a guy right away and started dating him. About a month later, we were [...]
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We Were Drinking and Ended Up Having Sex for the First Time
On Again, Off Again Relationship — Fear of Intimacy?
Is There Something More She isn’t Telling Me?
Am I Allowed to Ask My Psychologist What She is Writing About Me?
Alexithymia, Outbursts, and Agreeing a Time-Out Signal
Q: I have met a nice man, but sometimes he has strange outbursts. I have tried to find more information on them, but I don’t know what they are called. During the outbursts he manically denies everything, lies, rationalizes — in all possible ways refusing to encounter the thing discussed. I know all of these [...]
Can I Really Be This Bad at Starting Relationships?
Q: I’m a 23-year-old male graduate student at university who has never dated. I’m generally confident with people, but I’m a bit shy around strangers in social settings. Lately, I’ve noticed that this shyness is worse around people to whom I’m physically attracted. I feel very physically unattractive, knowing that only two women have ever [...]
