Q: I’m 19 years old; I was 18 when this happened. I had just broken up with my first love, whom I was with for over a year, so I was completely vulnerable and didn’t want to be alone. I met a guy right away and started dating him. About a month later, we were [...]
‘Abuse and Trauma’ Questions at Ask the Psychologist: Online Clinical Psychologist, Page 5
The following questions are related to ‘Abuse and Trauma’ at Ask the Psychologist: Online Clinical Psychologist.
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We Were Drinking and Ended Up Having Sex for the First Time
Must We Invite the Abuser to Her Birthday Party?
I’m the Last One Left at Home With My Abusive Mother
Q: I am 18 years old. I live alone with my mother in a large, four-bedroom house just minutes away from siblings, cousins, aunts and uncles. About six years ago we moved from California to Oregon. I honestly cannot tell you the reason for this; my only assumption is that my sister got knocked up [...]
My Baby Stopped Crying; Can Screaming Arguments Affect Him?
Q: If an infant is exposed to loud, screaming arguments right next to him (usually in the arms of one of the people involved in the argument) and then usually becomes completely silent for several minutes, even if previously crying before the screaming began, what effect could this be having on the infant? Thank you [...]
Why am I Having These Nightmares?
Q: I’m a 17-year-old guy from Brazil. I have been dealing with some issues for the past few years. During all my childhood, my father touched me inappropriately. He didn’t actually rape me but he would ‘play’ with my genitalia. I didn’t like it and I wanted to fight it but he was stronger than [...]
I’m Isolated and Depressed — Where Did It All Start?
Q: I was wondering if being an only child raised in a single-parent household could increase the likelihood of developing avoidant personality disorder. My father died just before I was two, and my mom never remarried. She wasn’t abusive in any way intentionally, but she wasn’t able to be around for me very much either. [...]
