The following questions are related to ‘Affair’ at Ask the Psychologist: Online Clinical Psychologist.
This list is sorted chronologically, from newest back to earliest.
Q: I’m (name withheld, male) and 59 years old. This past March I found my daughter after searching for her for 29 years. We’ve never seen each other. She was the result of an affair in the late seventies while her mother was separated and had filed for divorce from her then husband. Her mother [...]
Q: Hello, I am 28 years old, married for almost 8 years, and we have a 6-year-old son. I am confused about my relationship. I love my husband, but there are things that just get to me, like him not doing stuff around the house, being grouchy all the time, and not helping out with [...]
Q: I learned two days ago that my wife is having an affair with a man she met through her work. I confronted her about the situation, and after I provided proof that I was certain of the affair, she admitted to the affair and has been very open about sharing the details of her [...]
Q: My husband had an emotional affair with a woman, where he sat with her as A COUPLE, IN CHURCH, for many years. I’m having a great deal of difficulty getting past this betrayal, especially since church is meant to be a spritual place, where one reflects on life, with others. I was true to [...]
Q: I recently ended a relationship with a man I’ve been with on and off again for the past three years. We started our relationship fast by moving in together. During the first six months he had an affair with a coworker. During the course of our relationship I found out about several more. I [...]
Q: I found a message in my girlfriend’s phone to her ex-boy friend. The message read thus “Though our feelings r diminishing I will always keep our memories alive. At times I may feel to share with you but something keeps me down. I am always scared.” I want to leave her. Should I or [...]
Q: About a year ago, I began an affair with a coworker. My wife and I were having problems, and she was there for me emotionally. I misled her about seperating from my wife and potentially divorcing her (I feel that divorce is not an option, and my church looks disapprovingly on it as well). [...]
