Q: I recently ended a relationship with a man I’ve been with on and off again for the past three years. We started our relationship fast by moving in together. During the first six months he had an affair with a coworker. During the course of our relationship I found out about several more. I [...]

Q: I found a message in my girlfriend’s phone to her ex-boy friend. The message read thus “Though our feelings r diminishing I will always keep our memories alive. At times I may feel to share with you but something keeps me down. I am always scared.” I want to leave her. Should I or [...]

Q: About a year ago, I began an affair with a coworker. My wife and I were having problems, and she was there for me emotionally. I misled her about seperating from my wife and potentially divorcing her (I feel that divorce is not an option, and my church looks disapprovingly on it as well). [...]

Q: I know this makes me sound like the biggest scumbag on the planet, but that’s what I’m struggling with. I’m married with one child and another on the way. I met a woman at a recent company retreat (who is also married, but without children), and we had sex — although there is an [...]

Q: Help! I don’t know who would be best to help my marriage that is just about to crumble. My husband and I have been married almost 19 years, and he recently found out about an affair I had about 14 years ago. My infidelity and lies have obviously nearly destroyed our marriage, but we [...]

Q: Hi. I’m obsessed with someone I can’t marry, but I know he loves me in a very special way. How do I stop thinking about him? The harder I try to stop thinking about him, the more I think about him.

Q: I’m a 49-year-old male, and I’ve been in a monogamous relationship for 18 months. My new girlfriend is absolutely excellent, and I feel I’m fortunate, but our sex life lacks something; however, recently I had a brief fling with my ex-girlfriend (with intense sexual pleasure). I am really upset about my inappropriate behavior…it was [...]