Q: What was I dealing with? How can I heal? I’m having a terrible time letting him go, and understanding who exactly he was. He says I am obsessed with the past and he just wants to forget it and move on. Before I knew my husband he lived in a “boy’s only dormitory” (in [...]

Q: I am at a loss and not sure where to find answers online so I figured I could start here: I am in a marriage that is beyond repair and we are considering divorce. Therapy, etc. has been tried and failed; we are past that at this point. We agreed as a couple to [...]

Q: I hope you can give me some insight into what I need to do. My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years. I am 41 and she is 35. To give you some background on me, in our first year, I took my ex-girlfriend and our daughter with me to work but [...]

Q: I am divorced after 20 years of marriage. I’ve been divorced since April 2007. I started seeing a guy in September, and we really hit it off and it was great. In Oct — after a night when I thought he was going to tell me he loved me — he became cool as [...]

Q: For the past few months, I’ve become unusually lethargic and I find it hard to do anything productive. I haven’t related my feelings with literally anyone at all and, if I did, everyone would simply make the arbitrary assumption that I’m lazy. The reason for my sedentariness is most likely depression, and I can’t [...]

Q: Thank you for providing this service. I have been married for almost 21 years, with five children, ages 20 to 2. My husband was a drinker for years, till a serious illness ended that 2 years ago. He has always been a workaholic, was a rage-aholic, then attended some sort of conference for business [...]

Q: I am 25 years old and have been married for 8 years now. My marriage has been a rocky marriage since the beginning even though I am married to a great man. He is a great provider and gives me everything that I want; he doesn’t drink or smoke but he is an extremely [...]