Q: My wife and I dated for about a year and a half before we got married. After we got married, things changed. Within 4 months, we separated. If you ask her, I was too jealous and insecure. If you ask me, I didn’t like her spending time with her guy friends who were single [...]

Q: In August 2004, my wife of then 31 years filed for divorce. A month before our court date, she withdrew her petition. Just after she filed, she was hostile, angry, cocky, and arrogant. But after I met and started dating another woman, she became much more friendly and cooperative. While she never suggested reconciling, [...]

Q: My wife is from the Philippines, and we’ve been legally married since 2007. We’ve been involved since 2002. We have two boys, ages four and fifteen months. We are both 42. My wife has tried to commit suicide, and the last attempt brought her into hospital. She had her stomach pumped. She has attempted [...]

Q: I have been married almost 22 years and have 3 children. I really think I need to leave my husband, but I don’t know how. He’s a functional alcoholic. He goes to work to work everyday but is intoxicated by the time he arrives home. He is not physically abusive. But he does thing [...]

Q: I have been married for 39 years. My husband has his own business, but he has never been honest with me about his bottom-line income from his business. We have had financial problems all our life because of my husband’s lack of responsibility and failure to meet our obligations. We took out an equity [...]

Q: I have a question that has been bothering me for some time. I dated a man who had an unusual relationship with his ex-wife that I saw as unhealthy, although he seems to think that I am the one who has the problem. He often told me that he was afraid of losing any [...]

Q: My question is: Should my wife and I get divorced? First, a little background… My wife was born to a single mom whose college lover left town once he found out she was pregnant. She then felt pressured to find a husband with a good job. She married a personality disordered man with a [...]