Q: I cannot extricate myself from a relationship with a man who will soon be 46 years old. He has been without a full-time job for over a year, while he is working on a career transition. He remained attached to his elderly (68 years old) ex-GIRLFRIEND (not mom), while he started dating me (helping [...]

Q: I’m 20 years old and I live in Chicago. My husband is away at school right now. Whenever he sees a conflict on the horizon, whether it be on the phone or elsewhere, he doesn’t speak to me for several days; runs away from his problems, if you will. This makes what could have [...]

Q: I’m a guy aged 28 yrs about to marry a girl aged 25 yrs (arranged marriage). She has completed her B.Tech recently but is looking for job now. A few days back I explained to her the relationship of husband and wife in all manners — i.e., both mental relation and the sexual relation. [...]

Q: I was deeply in love with a girl when I was 16-18 years old. The family moved away and I was never able to finish the relationship. She got pregnant and was married and I went on with my life. After 32 years of marriage I had a dream of her. I was unhappy [...]

Q: I have dated a guy for four years. He is sixteen years younger than me, yet in many ways acts one hundred years older than me. Not until I had dated him for awhile did I realize he still lived at home with his mom and dad. He said he had never had a [...]

Q: Why do I feel bad when I win? Even if it’s an enemy; I often feel sorry for people when I excel. I want to be able to live at my full potential without the guilt of showing others up. A: Guilt is often a reaction to a behavior or attitude that is considered [...]

Q: I have had anxiety and depression issues all my life but recently they have gotten worse. I am having a hard time dealing with the stress of everyday life, and feel guilty about it. I am a stay at home mom with a one-year-old, but I’m also twenty years old. I often question my [...]