Q: In August 2004, my wife of then 31 years filed for divorce. A month before our court date, she withdrew her petition. Just after she filed, she was hostile, angry, cocky, and arrogant. But after I met and started dating another woman, she became much more friendly and cooperative. While she never suggested reconciling, [...]

Q: My husband and I have been having problems for a few months now. But before recently, things were actually going very well. In recent months, my husband has become controlling and possessive. He checks my phone and monitors where I go and who I see. Lately, he is throughly convinced that I have cheated [...]

Q: When my husband’s cell phone lost some of it’s programming today, he came to me complaining about it. I told him that I had not touched his phone. He then went off, proceeding to march around the house, and finally leaving in a huff. He then told me that my tone to him was [...]

Q: My husband and I have been together for eleven years and have a recurring problem with our communication process. We’ll be having a conversation about something. My husband is a bit of a hog of the conversational floor. He ends up giving monologues about things, and at some point I will interject — in [...]

Q: My spouse seems to react in ways that are not normal. He tends to see enemies in a lot of people (who I can personally vouch mean no harm to him or who even want to help). He can’t take any kind of criticism or get any feedback without taking it as a personal [...]

Q: Four months ago I discovered evidence that my wife had an affair with a co-worker that went on for 2 1/2 years. The cards and notes were from 24 years ago. When I confronted my wife, she admitted the affair and said it happened because she was unhappy in our marriage at that time. [...]

Q: I have been with my fiancé for almost six years. He is 26 years old. He has always been an exceptionally competitive person and hard on himself. If he doesn’t win he is upset for days. He then switches from a nice, fun-loving guy to a moody, grouchy person who doesn’t care about anything [...]