Q: I have been on antidepressants for more than 20 years. At present I am on 225 mg Effexor XL daily. For the last 10 years I have had no emotional feelings, nor do I have any sexual desires. I can’t even manage an impromptu hug or kiss, which is creating problems in my marriage [...]

Q: My mother-in-law is very controlling. She is always afraid that her son would get out of her control. We have been married for 3 years. When we got engaged and start planning the wedding she wanted things to be in her way and would convince my husband that it had to be done in [...]

Q: My daughter-in-law teaches 3 times a week for 2 hours at a time, and she has full-time sleep-in domestic help from Monday to Friday. How much should my son help her with the children and around the house, as she seems to expect more than the average woman does that we have come across? [...]

Q: I’m a 39-year-old female who divorced after 12 years of marriage two years ago. It took me awhile to realize that I had been in an emotionally abusive relationship with my ex-husband, and only woke up after his lover called me to tell me that he had been cheating on me for several years. [...]

Q: I have the following problem. We have been married about 7 years with two small children. During the last couple of years we’ve had serious marital problems, and at the moment there is very little intimacy between us and our sex life is almost nonexistent. My wife is also quite lonely, she does not [...]

Q: I discovered my wife was secretly emailing and IM’ing a past High School sweetheart and discussing our marriage problems and painting a picture that I am causing all the problems in our marriage. Naturally I was upset, hurt, outraged, confused, and angry. When I finally told her I knew, her excuse was “I didn’t [...]

Q: My husband is financially irresponsible and it’s causing arguments! Let me start by saying that we get along great for the most part. We enjoy the other’s company and doing things together like gardening, home improvements, cooking, vacationing, etc. He makes me smile on a daily basis and I love this guy. He has [...]