Q: I have been dating my boyfriend for almost three months now and I’ve begun to become really worried about him because he comes and goes through these almost apathetic or depressed states. Some days he will be extremely happy, pleasant to be around, funny, affectionate, focused on school and life; but then other times [...]

Q: Is there a diffrence in being in love with someone and loving someone??? I say there is. A: Some things in life are explained by an on-and-off switch…such as death and pregnancy. You either are…or you are not. There is no middle ground and no grey area. Other aspects of life are on a [...]

Q: I am divorced after 20 years of marriage. I’ve been divorced since April 2007. I started seeing a guy in September, and we really hit it off and it was great. In Oct — after a night when I thought he was going to tell me he loved me — he became cool as [...]

Q: I have some problems with swearing and it is affecting my relationship with my fiancée. I love her too much and we will be married this year. I can’t live without her so most of the time I stay at her place and I sleep in her room but I never touch her physically. [...]

Q: My husband and I split up a couple months ago to work on our marriage (apart in separate homes) due to his ongoing depression and inability to be involved in an intimate relationship. It has been over 4 years since he has touched me (no sex, or anything more intimate than occasional hand holding), [...]

Q: For the past few months, I’ve become unusually lethargic and I find it hard to do anything productive. I haven’t related my feelings with literally anyone at all and, if I did, everyone would simply make the arbitrary assumption that I’m lazy. The reason for my sedentariness is most likely depression, and I can’t [...]

Q: Thank you for providing this service. I have been married for almost 21 years, with five children, ages 20 to 2. My husband was a drinker for years, till a serious illness ended that 2 years ago. He has always been a workaholic, was a rage-aholic, then attended some sort of conference for business [...]