Q: Why is it that, when I’m by myself and look in the mirror I feel a little pretty, but when I’m out in public or post my picture online, I feel ugly — so disgusting — and like a lot of people don’t like or care about me? I try, and sometimes I have [...]
‘Self-esteem’ Questions at Ask the Psychologist: Online Clinical Psychologist
The following questions are related to ‘Self-esteem’ at Ask the Psychologist: Online Clinical Psychologist.
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I Feel Ugly Out in Public
Crying Too Much
Q: Recently I realized that I cry too often in inappropriate situations. Anything can trigger it, really — somebody scolds me, comments on my work, just frowns at me, or responds a bit harshly. The thing is, I know they mean no harm, I really do. I appreciate their pointing out my mistakes, and I [...]
I’m Jealous of My Girlfriend’s Past Experiences
I’m the Target of Mobbing
I’m Lonely But I Avoid Getting Into Conversations
Q: I’m 20 years old. I worry a lot about my friendships and I constantly have the feeling of being alone. I look for new friendships and I’m always looking to get into a relationship (although I haven’t had one yet) because I think it’s the only way to overcome this feeling of loneliness. However, [...]
I’m a Compulsive Liar
Q: I’m 20 and I’m a compulsive liar — at least, a self-diagnosed one. I recently came clean on all my long-standing fabrications to my girlfriend and closest friends, and in the process I lost all or most of them I’m pretty sure. So now I’m depressed, dealing with a breakup, and have low self-esteem [...]
