Q: I’m 22, and I was in a relationship for a year. The relationship had become very serious, and marriage was even discussed. But after a year, and all of a sudden, my feelings changed for him. Maybe we got too close too quickly or maybe I was only infatuated at the beginning. I’m still [...]

Q: Is it possible to uncover repressed memories of childhood sexual abuse without some kind of therapy work? I’m a 21-year-old woman, and my mom has told me that when I was 11 years old I was sexually abused by my babysitter’s son; but she didn’t tell me details. I don’t remember the event, so [...]

Q: I’ve been seeing a girl for about two years now. At first, it was just a fun fling, and I told myself I would never get serious with her because of her past. But I’ve found myself getting more serious about her over the past year. I went to high school with this girl [...]

Q: I have been in love with a man for the past 5 years, and we are going to get married next month. But there is one problem we have. He does not like the way I dress when I dress up. He is always saying things like I should not show my skin like [...]

Q: I’m 41 years old and have been struggling for several years with an obsession about my girlfriend’s past sexual relationships. We’ve been together for over 6 years, and I would say it is an otherwise excellent relationship. She is good to me, I enjoy being with her, and we share similar values and viewpoints [...]

Q: I am a 36-year-old married man. I have a problem that I want to get rid of: I often find that unwittingly my gaze goes toward men’s pants. I think this is because I have a complex that my penis is small in size. Please suggest to me how this can be cured. A: [...]

Q: I’m a 23-year-old male, and I’ve been suffering from something that sounds very much like HOCD (Homosexual Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder). I have had troubling thoughts ever since a “porn incident” when I was 17: I accidentally saw a gay porn picture and became intensely aroused by it. Following that episode, I had escalating fear and [...]