Q: I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now, and we have been living together for the past 9 months. I love him to death. But there’s a big problem: we’ve never had sex. My boyfriend and I sleep in the same bed every night. We fool around and [...]

Q: I have a problem in my relationship with my girlfriend. I have absolutely no doubt whatsoever that she loves me. She makes that clear in various ways. She is affectionate, kind, caring, and appears to appreciate my qualities. Our relationship is close to perfect in every area except for sex. My girlfriend is clearly [...]

Q: I wonder if you can give me some sense of direction about a problem I’m having. I am in a fairly stable relationship. We have been together for 18 months. I say fairly stable because, like many, we argue about issues both big and small. The most common re-occurring issue we argue about is [...]

Q: I have a problem with staring at women’s breasts and men’s crotches when interacting with people. The problem started about 11 months ago. Before that, I was rather a normal person, loved and respected by my friends and business associates. I have had different obsessions throughout my life, as well as other problems ranging [...]

Q: I have a friend who is only 23, but she is in love with a 61-year-old man. They’ve been dating for 4 months, and they’re getting married in one month. I don’t think the relationship she has with this man is normal. He looks like her grandfather. So, what I’m wondering is whether there [...]

Q: I am a 52-year-old African-American male. For the past few months I have been having trouble maintaining an erection during intercourse. I tried Viagra before, and it was effective for a little while, but not anymore. I can get an erection but lose it halfway into lovemaking. It makes me very anxious when this [...]

Q: I would really be grateful for any advice on an unusual matter. I was in a relationship with a guy who was a part of a religious sect. I didn’t really know this was an odd sect at first and got involved only because I thought it was a good Christian thing to do. [...]