Q: Something has been bothering me for a while, and I don’t know if it’s some kind of avoidance disorder. I also fear it may lead to a depression. The thing is I just can’t express my emotions, so they’ve been bottling up over the years and driving me crazy! I’m a 23-year-old guy and [...]
‘Therapy’ Questions at Ask the Psychologist: Online Clinical Psychologist, Page 8
The following questions are related to ‘Therapy’ at Ask the Psychologist: Online Clinical Psychologist.
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Tired of Being a Lone Wolf
My Transgender Boyfriend Has Anger Issues
Q: I’m a 20-year-old woman dating a 22-year-old pre-op transman. My boyfriend was born female, but rejected his gender identity of ‘woman’ four years ago and is now scheduled for transformative surgery soon. At the beginning of our relationship we never fought. Every day was an adventure, and I was so thrilled to have found [...]
Helping a Friend With Anxiety
Q: My friend has a problem. She says she has a chemical imbalance in her brain, and from everything I’ve talked about with her, I don’t doubt it. She has extreme OCD and a pretty negative self-image, all of which gather together into a huge…something like a ball of stress and pain that is ruining [...]
Help! I’m a Bit of a Stalker!
I Have a Need to Feel Emotional Pain — Why do I Make Myself Cry?
Q: I frequently feel the need to force myself to feel emotional pain by imagining a distressing situation (e.g., imagining a painful breakup, imagining my last words when I die, etc.). I am not normally ‘satisfied’ until I cry uncontrollably to the point where I feel physical chest pains and fall asleep. I usually feel [...]
I Have Thoughts of Hurting People — What’s Wrong With Me?
Q: I have thoughts and sometimes images of killing people I know, and thoughts that I’ve hurt a child, although I have no intention of doing anything like that. So I will check them over and over again. I always find myself checking things over and over for fear something bad will happen, and I [...]
