The following questions are related to ‘Affair’ at Ask the Psychologist: Online Licensed Psychologist.
Q: My husband and I have been having problems for a few months now. But before recently, things were actually going very well. In recent months, my husband has become controlling and possessive. He checks my phone and monitors where I go and who I see. Lately, he is throughly convinced that I have cheated […]
Q: Four months ago I discovered evidence that my wife had an affair with a co-worker that went on for 2 1/2 years. The cards and notes were from 24 years ago. When I confronted my wife, she admitted the affair and said it happened because she was unhappy in our marriage at that time. […]
Q: At 49, it seems a little late to be where I am — but here I am. I’ve always been interested in psychology but when, at 40, I had an affair, my interest in psychology took on a new impetus. How could a guy like me, who had it all, do so much damage […]
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now, and it’s been a rocky roller coaster except for the first month or so. After about 4 months I found out from his ex-fiancée that he cheated on me with her for almost 3 months. Being a giant idiot, I accepted his apologies and […]
Q: I was with a girl for about two years. We had a very good relationship for the most part. We ended up breaking up over some trivial matters. I spent a total of 7 months trying to get her back, which leads us up to the present. Four months into this she started dating […]
Q: I have been with my wife for 18 years, ever since I was 15. We have been married for 10 years. Just two weeks ago, I learned she had an affair with one of my good friends. She has told me that the affair went on for almost a year and that she and […]
Q: My fiancé had a brief (3-week) relationship with a woman a few years ago. The woman found out she was pregnant and decided to have the child, even after my fiancé was truthful with her that he had accepted a job out of state, that he was not ready to have a child, and […]
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