The following questions are related to ‘Sexuality’ at Ask the Psychologist: Online Licensed Psychologist.
Q: I am a 24-year-old male who has been straight since before he can remember. Being with girls was effortless, and I enjoyed being with them/fantasising about them, etc. Rarely I would also have same sex fantasies. Sometimes they would turn me on more, and sometimes they wouldn’t, but in either case I was not […]
Q: My fiancé and I have been together for nearly two years. We started out as a long distance relationship, so sex was often infrequent, but when we did see each other we would do it a few times a day. He moved closer to me about a year ago, and our sex life remained […]
Q: I am from Isfahan, Iran. I am Muslim and study at university. I am 21 years old, alone, and have never had a girlfriend “because that is bad in Islamic countries”. Nevertheless I need to know love! I need mutual love with a girl. I am always thinking of sex. In Iran, boys do […]
Q: I’m an 18-year-old female, and I have been experiencing some of the symptoms that seem to be similar to “HOCD”. About a year ago, I discovered porn. I viewed straight porn first and experienced little arousal; then I stumbled upon lesbian porn and experienced enough arousal to climax. At this point, I didn’t really […]
Q: I’ve been with my partner for about a year now, and we are crazy in love, but for the past four or five months she hasn’t really felt like having sex very much. When we do, it’s amazing, but it’s usually only once a week, or less. I’m not sex crazy, but I can’t […]
Thanks for your help. I am very confused about what I should do, if anything. I’ve been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We met at work, and everything in our relationship is going fine. We have an above average sex life, even he has commented on that — how his friends […]
Q: When we were kids, a cousin of mine of the same sex got me into being sexual with them. I was just a couple of years younger and we were always playing a game called “mother and daddy.” The nature of the encounters included kissing, oral sex, and bumping our parts against each other. […]
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