The following questions are related to ‘Sexuality’ at Ask the Psychologist: Online Licensed Psychologist.
My wife (20 years together, 13 years married) and I have always felt something was awkward sexually but we were happy and couldn’t quite understand what. Recently she confided that for many years she’s had to fantasize about other men for “extra stimulation” to facilitate orgasms. In addition, she confided that her most favorite sexual […]
Q: I’m 16 and I feel like I’m a mess. My problem is that I’m getting obsessed with any older good looking guy I see. Lately, I have been having erotic dreams about my teachers and the effect of it drives me crazy. It even affects how I behave in class. I have a boyfriend […]
Q: My question is regarding my sexual fantasies — I really want to understand why I have them. I am a 24-year-old gay man. Sexually what I fantasize about/what turns me on the most includes: real brothers having sex (also father/son, mother/daughter), fantasies about my own male cousins and uncles, fantasies about joining a girlfriend […]
Q: I have been feeling a lot of guilt and shame and confusion over this. When I was seven years old, in first grade, I had this friend who was being sexually molested at home by a relative. She would kind of act out what was happening to her with me. I don’t remember how […]
Q: I am a married male aged 47 years, and I have two kids ages 14 and 9. My wife is a teacher aged 40. I used to walk a distance of 2km in the morning to reach my office. While walking, I saw a girl who looked to be approximately 20-25 years old working […]
Q: I am a 30-year-old virgin very much obsessed with sexuality and unable to focus on other things. I fantasize about some things that I find very queer and that make me feel that I am a sexual pervert. These attractions include cavity spots on a woman’s molar teeth when she opens her mouth, moles […]
Q: My wife and I are in our 30s, originally from India, but living in the US. When we met we both had our doubts about marriage, but our respective families pushed us into it. We have been married for almost three years now. When I met her initially, I was already late for marriage, […]
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